Nigel had a brilliant day in Norfolk and a hard one in London, and I came out with a line that became the title.
Neil Martin · Beats, Business & Life
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Episode 179: Be The Verb
Nigel had lost his voice, so I took his voice note about motivating the motivator and ran with it. Be the noun, do the verb.
Episode 178: Nigel is Speechless
Nigel lost his voice, so I did this one on my own and got thinking about who’s in your corner when plans fall over.
Episode 177: Live In The Solution
A friend’s nudge reminded me how much the podcast reaches people. Why you should let your mess age before it becomes your message, and why ringing someone worse off helps on a bad day.
Episode 176: The Courage To Quit
Sometimes giving up is the right call, and I learned it being dragged face-first behind a boat in St Lucia.
Episode 175: Where Are You? (and the when did you last pick up the phone?)
Nigel got offered a Calendly slot seven weeks away, so he just rang the bloke and sorted it in three minutes.
Episode 174: The Reason Why Most People Suck
Nigel owns up to a week where he’d got nothing done, and we end up talking about going easy on yourself.
Episode 173: Customer Experience Matters (especially when it sucks)
My holiday got cancelled by the storms and nobody thought to tell me. Nigel and I on why silence loses you customers.
Episode 172: Taking The Towels and The Sweets Away
A guest house took away Nigel’s second towel and sweet because he was on his own. He laughed, and that became the whole episode.
Episode 171: Feedback, Feedforward and Something Even More Important Than That
Nigel’s silent 1,000-person webinar, my client’s video notes, and why a big reaction to a bad coffee probably isn’t about the coffee.
Episode 170: The Importance of Being You
Nigel reckons the act lasts about three days on Big Brother. We talked about showing up as yourself, on stage and off it.
Atlas of the Heart and the difference between guilt and shame
Learn the difference between guilt and shame, and why naming your feelings properly makes them so much easier to deal with.
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Hi, I’m Neil
DJing since 1987, three decades in business, and the author of Done Beats Perfect. This is where I write it all down.















